yes, absolutely right braava. we also had a very grounded conversation, grounded in our utter happiness with each other. from ur side : 1. u are so happy about my education, and how i have reached great heights because of that. u keep talking with venkat all the time about that aspect. even in recent wedding, all my distant relative folks were so happy with my special school ( which itself is an alibi) and expressed great pleasure of my having achieved something great (instead of all the mundane corporate head honchos around in napad nexgen itself). 2. same way i am so happy of your marrying outside ur community, ur embrace of castelessness and samathuvam. plus ur generous grant of ur dad’s property share to elder bro. *So my resolve is this – everytime u refer to that “happy” point about me ( whether directly or tangentially), i will instantly compliment u back with your own happy achievement. that way, we shall continue to remain happy with each other* vivek karwanyoon, head finance, digiyatra