we are saying bye to Vaidy maama here at Kalpally. Hats off ( and i am saying this most sincerely) to Harish family for the active participation of women folk in the cremation proceedings, and to give the patriarch a fitting farewell. I am ashamed to say that i was not able to execute this simple format during prema demise. However much i tried that day Rajani refused to come to the cremation nor was willing to send my children though na1 actually wanted to. It remains my regret even today