ttt some more points sivatc function : venkanna did not come – his excuse was “ladies function, i hv personal work”. real reason – since sats was there. naga didnt come – excuse =”ladies function”. real reason – kittu was there.but he went to aichu seemantham. why double std, i dont know / rashmi just arrived from beijing so usha cud not make it / giri – madhwa – kaca failed to introduce me / chandru – away at US, but given the closeness i feel he cud have flown in for the event / no photographer/videographer at the event is a big let-down. wonder why we friends are not castigating kaca for this lapse. personal snaps/zoom call/or some excuse of someone falling sick – not acceptable, kaca / special mention = sats was most happy meeting coopra at event/very poor budgeting, why the karumi-thanam ? ordered only 80 plates whereas 120 people attended. also only 90 rasmalais ( i am the only one who ate 2 rasmalais), so 29-odd people had to make do without rasmalais. and kaca had to rush at 130pm to buy extra leaves. sorry, not acceptable. i feel this was being miserly and penny-saving, even though both the bros have great corporate jobs now btw – aichu naamakaram snaps, dau’s name, baby photos ??? – no details have come so far. guys – pl help kaca explained – naga comes only if his set of friends are there, like ganesh Ramalingam, sundar Mahalingam, brahmana samoogam folks etc——left home 1040am, reach 11.05am – gm palya round& round batter, texas instruments,bad choice nagavarapalya,vet hospital service rd,nonnas, little italy,scooter park helmet taken upstairs raama coopra – godfather big man, priya mom enquire, congrats to gautham kk – how health, now from jalahalli moved to sanjay nagar dollars colony sriranjani biotech mt carmel, uma big nose effusive hi look same as always swami and raji manni – didnt like swami sarcasm, esp about kittu.discuss ayodhya, uncomfy conversation, i only have 1 house, manni tried control in vain kaanchana manni congrats on becoming principal, sneha bar exam passed start practice as advocate 3-storied home office but she wants to join corporate hasina – discuss on 1.17 hr run, great 4.8 hba1c genetics, lakshmi dad doing indifferent healthwise,she also doing wipro 21sept,chauhan,nps franchisee vibuthipura ramdas-aadhira meaning,he going next, rashmi big bank beijing 30+, varun digital marketing google,adithi hr new jersey,parents alwarpet,mom 88 look after hema-abhi praise,CA funnel, philips semiconductor jakkur,viswanathan seshan netherlands,athimber 1 month hospital many deaths that time so miracle,invited myself to ferns city one day fc siva,kiran-best wishes,maruthaani,laughing face glow kiran dad sanskrit scholar krs dam full water,kishore shown him sundar joint snap,sivaan district telangana chittappa they talk kannada among themselves saligramam sundar and his bro(forget hi name), eppo saappadu qn ? lakshminarayanan maama tiruvannamalai comedy and 2 rasmalais active kalyanaraman onnu vitta chittappa dau societe general son informatica drop scooter kaca 3rd floor home luggage conspicous absentees-nagaraj, usha ramnath, chandru family kittu discuss-suraj for sudha, two sons of rema, they now london,yuvan tanav awesome, krishank finishing 12th,will come see prema with kaca good food – urulai,rasmalai,avial,vaazhappoo,rr 350 plate gowrishankar catering,hall 10k,many neighbours did not specifically meet others,cud not go to sundarrama bhaagavathar function next door sindhuja pyschology nm college mumbai sorry for the spam photo, but my neice’s seemantham was also held today at chennai. Shilpa is dau of Sudha ( my cousin), dau of Sampa (my periamma) see how mookka pidikka i have eaten ! morning 10am i had thick avocado protein shake, so sugar controlled around 100-120 max. at 1245pm, i started my lunch ( ended by 105pm). from 1247pm till 2pm, steep upward curve – went from 101 to 211, which is beyond the 180 range. txs to coopra who fed me with 2 rasmalais, paayasam etc. lots of white rice also eaten, alongwith atleast 2 rounds of kaay-gari. hasina sitting on my rite scolded the caterer to serve each veggie a second time – so 2 avials, 2 large urulai, 2 aaamavadai etc etc. had a great time, guys, and it was good meeting hema after many years. kaca – after dropping kalyana raaman, i came back to a photo ( see the first one). had to leave by 155pm machan without saying bye to u ( u had gone for buying elai i think) bhagavathar function? am leaving now, can i get breakfast at bhagavathar place? i can keep listening to kacheri eating my breakfast sent to kiran’s amz account. pl also collect rs 20 from kaca ( mohan). so total is Rs 1001, which is more than coopra raaman😃. all the best gud morning sam sir/samuel sir/sunil sir, sorry, was busy yesterday, cud not write back. 1. received ur payment of 35K ON TIME, ie by 10th of july. thanks so much for the timely payment 2. as i told u, u are my bro, u are my angel, u are my buddy. So any deduction as per your choice, is ok for me. So, no issues at all ! 3. i always say that this agreement between us has to be WIN-WIN. So, as per your instruction, i have revised start date to 1 July 2025. So this rental cycle is : 1 July 2025 to 31 May 2026. Hope this is ok. 4. U also have to make some money, i also shud not have any loss. My calculation, based on 5% increment, says Rs 39475 Are you ok with this, or do u want to change the number ? PLEASE FEEL FREE TO USE UR JUDGEMENT. Anything from ur side is fine, u are my bro, u are my angel. Just inform me the exact amount, so that i will budget the amount in my monthly recievables. Have a great weekend. I am really sorry that i am not able to give you more business as of today ( sharda, gopalan, sale of my flats etc), but one day in future, it shall happen. And u are always my GODFATHER. Alleluyaa kaca – test transfered Rs 20 to u now, to confirm ur upi. spoke to siva tc at 815am asking for his/kiran amz email id. still not sent. pl remind him. i will gift him Rs 981 in amazon gift card. so total is 1001, which wud be Rs 1 more than coopra’s gift amount coopra – my “radio silence” is not me being “careful”, rather it is me being “bored”. as everyone knows, i am generally so contemptuous of those rituals. so honestly, i dont care if someone eats/doesnt eat. i dont care if someone hides behind sanskrit terms or not. but then, as u say, it is definitely “ur life ur choice”, so how does it matter? as for me, i will be mookkupidikka eating, as always! dear friends – i have done 1500 posts till now, across 15 pages ( each page has 100 posts). All the 1500 are mentioned in saro22.com/a ( the headings plus the links) Pl go thru them, and provide inputs/comments/feedback/advice/views/issues/response/queries/requirements——1. “Banaswadi Anjaneya Venna Alankaaram” is scheduled for 6pm, Thursday, 14 Sept 2023. All invited. Big Container for Vennai. Will be kept and stored for later distribution. 2. Counselling time and date not fixed. Will be done tomorrow 3. Amma health ok, only small issues. a. No stool for last 4 days though no discomfort. if not by tomorrow morning, then laxative will be given b. Steroid is having good effect i think – no pain from the time of hospital discharge ( Sunday morning) till now ( Monday nite) c. But she is getting more angry and scolding ( maybe steroid effect!) 4. Interviews started for full-time nurse cum helper. One person came today, Amma liked her. However, we have told her to wait till Vinayaka chaturthi end 5. Amma and me arranging all things at home – sorting items,clothes etc. Hence Amma preference -relatives may please visit only after Vinayaka Chathurthi, based on convenient schedules. Everthing will be arranged and more clarity by that time hi, 1. the reports from manipal which i have got till now, are the below 6 pdfs 2. ct-scan films are with me. will try to convert to pdf in high-res and send 3. i dont think i have received pet-scan report till now. will send when i get them 4. biopsy result will be out by wed eod 5. anyway, we are doing our counselling with onco dept on thu sometime, and will be discussing all these reports——Full-time nurse/helper for light work – for Elder Care – near Thippasandra at Bengaluru* Patient Name : Mrs Prema Narayanan Gender : Female Age : 77 Height : 145 cm Weight : 37 kg Guardian Name : son : N Sathish Primary Contact No : 9886730012 Alternate Contact No : 9916128085 Email ID : s@es22.com Complete Address : Flat 103, RMN Square, Vignan Nagar Main Road, Bengaluru-560037 https://goo.gl/maps/b1r9yUbF41fZeGyq8 *Current Medical Status* : – Patient is generally fit and mobile. – She cooks by herself, but may need help in cutting vegetables – She goes to washroom and does daily chores by herself – She is active, walks properly but slowly – She needs only light medical care – eg giving her oral medicines on time etc, generally giving company in light work etc – We also have a maid who comes and does vessels and house cleaning, every day – Preferably, the helper should be able to take BP readings, take out blood for sugar measurement, put her on saline and iv fluids ( all this is required in future, not now) – She has relapse of cancer, so her health may slowly deteriorate over time ( pl note) ull-time nurse/helper. Preferably shud speak either Kannada or Thamizh. Preferably under 40 years of age. Only Light work during day, We will arrange bed and facilities for the nurse with proper comfort etc, in same room as my mother. As of now, no need any medical care in middle of night ( my mother sleeps well and takes care of herself) *Offered salary* Rs 20000 – Rs 25000 per month, depending on skillsets. Direct candidate or through Agency, welcome Amma Aasai = First with sisters. So after Monday Vinayaka Chaturthi – Tuesday or Wednesday arrival in Bengaluru => Sampa + Latha + Viji *Please check with other sisters if it is possible. Amma will also call you tomorrow* No of days for the sisters = As per your convenience !!! ( minimum 3-4 days !!!😀) Viji Chikkamma = please please try your best both sathish and prema spoke to viji in detail, in morning. everybody coming on 19th sept afternoon 2. prema ok and no pain. morning 7 am stools happened. but no sleep last nite – only 3 hours. So today night i will give her restly 0.25 for sound sleep. 3. prema regular schedule nowadays: – wake up around 830 am and tea – one idli – into small pieces, only with sugar, thuppa and milk and mosuru, full mix and have – kanji prepare – mash rice, mosuru, milk, salt – keep in flask, and have time to time between 12 noon and 230 pm – sleep for 1-2 hours 3 to 5 pm – evening dinner – 8 to 10 pm – same kanji + another flask ( mash apple, vaazhapazham, any other fruit in flask) – TV till 1 am, then try to sleep. but usually sleep only by 3 minimum 12/09/23, 11:44 am – Sathish: 1. sukumar chikkappa – noted. txs, will meet u on 20th morning 2. raghu maama : “raghu+indu” schedule can be after Sisters departure. Sudha Haribaskar will inform me as to upto what time Sampa can be here. So you can come imm after they leave flat 103, rmn square, there is a gate with security cabin, to enter the compound. this compound has two apts – rmn square in front and tranquil ambience at the back. on left of the gate is photomax studio, on right is federal bank. landmark to ask any auto guy is “federal bank or hdfc bank, vignan nagar” pl store amma house address in this group*. best station to get down is KRPuram ( about Rs 100 by auto). Else Cantonment ( about 200 by auto). We need to ask for “Vignan Nagar, near Malleshpalya, Near BEML Gate, about 2.5 km from Thippasandra” Dear New India Assurance Health Insurance Team, subject : DEATH OF POLICY HOLDER WITHIN 2 MONTHS OF RENEWAL. HENCE PRORATA REFUND REQUESTED. Name of policy holder = Mrs Prema Narayanan, Senior Citizen, Policy no = 71250061259500000365 Premium paid = Rs 81783 Date of payment = 13th Aug 2025 Date of death = 29th Sept 2025 I spoke to tech-support team, which confirmed that pro-rata refund shall be processed as per your rules. 1. pl find Prema’s death certificate attached herein 2. The premium has been paid from my side ( Sathish Narayanan, only child). My account details are as follows :007610 5003 2231, name ” n sathish”, hdfc bank mg road bengaluru branch. ifsc code is hdfc0000076 Please feel free to call me on my mobile : 98867-30012 for any other clarifications. My email is s@es22.com (or) sathishn@gmail.com Regards, Sathish Loss is never permanent; it’s a pause, a reset, or a lesson preparing you for something greater Any arrangement needed = Sathish can do if instructed — 1. right from discharge on sunday, no pain. so it is good point. 2. but since no sleep, last nite i gave restyl ( sleep medicine) 3. today i will go to manipal and get reports. *onco counselling most probably on fri morning -gv aunty pl note* 4. 24-hour nurse arranged for amma. “triveni”, 40 years old, speaks all languages, amma interviewed and liked her. she is joining on sunday morning 5. raghu maama – when possible pl update ur travel plans. after u, sudha+anu ( my paternal cousins) will come——1.slept well last nite, stools passed in morning, no issues there 2. small point to note : she has steroid ( dexa 4mg) in morning 9 am and evening 8 pm. this is for pain relief. so, after 2 hours of dexa, and till 5-6 hours, she is very active and little bit shouting ( ie 11am-2pm and 10pm-12 midnight) 3. lung bit affected, so asthalin inhaler being used regularly (3-4times a day). also steam inhalation will start 4. no pain till now. managed I went and collected all other reports ( petscan, biopsy etc) yesterday. but have not opened and seen. *Meeting at Manipal Hospital tomorow ( Friday)* 1. With Dr Poonam ( her main onco doctor) : 2pm – 1st floor, Onco Department 2. Then Meet Dr Benzie ( counselling doctor at onco) 3. Then Meet Dr Sadashiva Iyer ( head of palliative and pain management, Manipal) *prema, sathish, rajani visited banaswadi anjaneyar temple today. evening 545 pm – vennai alankaaram*, full 2 kg of vennai taken and will be distributed to everyone soon. also tulasi. amma did poojai energetically, kept having kanji every few mins but ok – she did full pradakshana of all gods in temple. just returned. amma did archanai for wellbeing of everyone – all friends and relatives slept ok. only problem during waking time – suddenly feels very tired, then gets ok, again v tired etc. So always needs to keep eating something – kanji, mix fruit juice, watery mosuranna etc. so her health condition changes from one end to another, sometimes even in 5 minutes *Manipal hospital visit today afternoon – main points – dr poonam and dr vadiraja (radiotherapist)* 1. like corona virus, few cancer cells may have escaped chemo 7 years back. so they have now come to life and have spread across body 2. mainly in spinal cord and in pelvic bone ( waist bone). also lot of spread in lungs. small spread in brain region. 3. with biopsy, we have now identified exact type of cancer cells(ER+,PR- Her2Nue-). so our treatment plan will be against that type. Seven years back, the cancer cell type was different (ER+,PR+). 4. So we will give some heavy injections ( both sub-muscular and sub-cutaneous) every 15 days and every month for rest of her life 5. also we will give 3 medicines for daily ( hormone treatment) 6. to start, we will give “Radiation to spine”. So, tomorrow onwards ( 16th Sept onwards), we will start radiation treatment. *Sathish is taking her to Manipal at 9 am, Saturday. Next 10-15 days we need to take her daily i think* 7. After Radiation completed, we will meet Dr Poonam for next advice. ———- *Doctor answer to questions* 1. No need chemo at this stage. Will not help. 2. We cant say how long patient will live.Like you, we also want “quality of life” and not “quantity”. So, question is useless. 3. For weight loss and no hunger, i will give one medicine – let her have it daily. Let us see. 4. For other issues she is facing, let her have her current medicines ( eg restyl for sleep, cremaffin for constipation etc). and she can have all her existing medicines ( bp, sugar, thyroid, neuro etc) 5. Pain management doctor – you can meet her later after radiation is over. For back pain, she can use “Lumbar support belt also” 6. If you want to try other medicine systems, eg ayurveda, your wish. But i dont know anything about it. Also, 1 advice. You can have leaf or root etc ( something u can see), but not powder. Please. 7. Yes, if she can manage, she can go to Tirupathi for a day. 8. About hearing loss, not specifically connected to cancer or her medicines. But pl remember – cancer is all in her body, so all these small things might happen. ——— GV Aunty – if i have missed anything important, you can add full nite amma was not ok. very weak, vomit sensation, little stomach pain, stomach feeling full ( “ubbi irukku”), tongue pain ( “naakkula punnu). gave sleep tablet and she cud sleep 3-4 hours. i dont know, but i feel it cud be effect of steroid. manipal appointment also canceled bcos she cant move. will go later in day if she can move today our nurse/helper is joining ( triveni)

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