agasthya periyappa siva tc kiran shukla kishore thaai maaman naamakaranam function private affair Veppalai kappu function arisi some old customs revived in siva son namakaranam nel ( dhanya danam to brahmana and dayadis) kappu arrisi ritual, angad angad mantram father telling son that you are verily myself in every sense, didn’t see father smelling the head of the baby for the first time – hope vadhyar included it/kiddos sofa siva hair style/maama with dhambathi plate read shloka/vaadhiyaar aachar elai poojai coconut cousins sundar bro saaligraaamam/saree change blue dots grand flowers/master agasthya saree wrap sleeping pink dress cosy/full offering in vaazhai elai/offering to aachaar/blessings from all saashtaanga namaskaaram/kooja showing/lifting baby